Worrying About Money Is Not Working For Your Money
Jun 29, 2025
Every day, you hear it.
“I’m just so stressed about money.”
“What if I don’t close this deal?”
“I need to make something happen—fast.”
If you’re in real estate, you’ve either said these words… or heard them constantly from others.
It feels justified. Rational. Even responsible.
But here’s the wake-up call most agents need to hear:
Worry is not work.
Worry is just the illusion of effort without any result.
And more importantly—
Worry is a habit.
It’s what your brain does to avoid doing the actual, meaningful work that moves the needle.
Why You Worry Instead of Work
Worrying feels like you're doing something.
But you’re not.
You’re looping. Spinning. Fantasizing worst-case scenarios.
You're burning emotional energy instead of building anything real.
You're feeding a mental addiction to control what cannot be controlled—while avoiding the one thing you can:
Execution.
Why does this happen?
Because real work—the work that builds trust, creates momentum, and cultivates business—is slow. It’s uncertain. It’s hard.
- Calling the client you’ve neglected…
- Reaching out with no immediate ROI…
- Sitting in silence and planning your day with intention…
- Writing the handwritten note…
- Following up with the lead that ghosted you…
None of these things offer instant gratification.
But worry does.
Worry gives your brain a temporary hit of importance—like you’re in the fight, even though you haven’t thrown a single punch.
The Longer-Term Cost of Worry as a Lifestyle
Most agents think the cost of worry is stress.
It’s not.
The true cost is compounded inaction.
Day after day, worry:
- Steals your time
- Clouds your focus
- Fuels bad decisions
- Weakens your discipline
- Makes you reactive, not proactive
- Trains your brain to solve imaginary problems instead of real ones
Over time, this leads to one inevitable result:
You become someone who survives—but never thrives.
You’ll work harder and harder to stay in place.
You’ll chase easy wins and burn out faster.
You’ll sabotage opportunities because your nervous system is wired for panic, not peace.
And you’ll watch people with less talent and more focus pass you by.
Because they didn’t spend the day worrying about what could go wrong—
They spent the day doing what they could to make something go right.
You Can’t Worry Your Way to Success
Let this land:
Worry is not a sign you care.
It’s a sign you’re afraid to act.
You don’t need to fix your fear. You need to move anyway.
This is what separates pros from amateurs.
Pros feel fear, too—but they don’t worship it.
They don’t make a home in it.
They don’t spiral in it for hours pretending it’s “thinking” or “planning.”
They get in motion.
Because motion changes emotion.
Clarity comes from movement.
And confidence is built through doing—not through thinking.
This Is the Rewire
If you want to build a business that pays you well and feels good to run, you have to rewire your default response to fear.
You can’t afford to sit in worry.
You have to learn to act when you’re uncertain.
To focus when you're afraid.
To move when you want to freeze.
Because the business you want is on the other side of the actions you’re currently avoiding.
This Is Exactly What The Performance Six Coaching Program Helps You Do
The market is tough.
Inventory is low. Buyers are hesitant. Sellers are stubborn.
And it’s summer — the season where most agents start to drift and disconnect.
They tell themselves they’ll “get back on track” after Labor Day.
But by then, it’s too late.
The Performance Six Coaching Program starts this Monday.
And if you’re stuck in the worry trap, this is your lifeline.
Because what you need isn’t more hustle.
You need the right standards.
This program gives you:
- A daily structure to anchor your focus
- Tactical empathy to build trust and win clients
- Strategic execution to stop spinning and start progressing
- A system to rewire your brain from survival to success
Top agents don’t wait for things to get better.
They get better.
They align actions with standards — not feelings, not fear.
So if you’re done worrying... and ready to work on what actually matters…
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