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The Best Predictor of the Future is the Past.
For you...
Is this a good thing or...
A not-so-good thing?
Would it be crazy to think...
As a real estate professional...
You would like to make more money (probably a lot more money)...
You would like to be working less (and definitely not working 24/7)...
And you would like to be working with much less stress in your life (and a lot more ease)?
Would that assessment be far off the mark?
Here is the big question...
How will you experience any of the three things listed above...
If you keep doing what you have always done?
How is that possible?
The answer is... IT IS NOT POSSIBLE!!
Whether you realize it or not...
You are not programmed and conditioned to be successful.
Instead, you are programmed and conditioned to survive.
This is not because you have done something wrong.
It is simply the way your brain is wired when you are born.
The good news...
You can rewire your brain.
The bad news...
If you don't rewire your brain...
The past is going to equal the future!!
It is important to understand...
You don't need a new idea...
You don't need a magic pill...
And HOPE is not the answer.
If you want real positive change in your life...
IT IS AN INSIDE JOB!!
Your core beliefs have to change...
Your habits have to change...
And your expectations of life have to change.
Otherwise, NOTHING IS GOING TO CHANGE!!
What doesn't have to change is... LIFE!!
You can visualize all you want...
You can set as many goals and intentions as you like...
You can pit your will against the will of the universe over and over again...
These are just very convenient ways to distract yourself from doing the real work.
Until your habit mind supports your creative mind...
You are doomed to repeat the past!!
The result will always be the same.
What you have always gotten...
You will continue to get, plus or minus 10%.
This will sound incredibly harsh and against everything you have learned and believed in your life, however...
WHAT YOU WANT...
Your desires...
Your wishes...
They have NOTHING to do with what is going to happen in life!!
OUCH!!
DOUBLE OUCH!!
I know... you know...
You can't change the weather.
Why in the world then...
Do you think you can change the natural unfolding of life?
And don't deny you don't do this.
You think if you concentrate hard enough...
And work hard enough...
And get lucky enough...
You can control what happens in your life.
How did you ever arrive at this conclusion?
You keep thinking the key to life is getting more of what you want and avoiding what you don't want.
This is purely delusional to the nth degree!!
Magical thinking at its height!!
I can hear you screaming... BUT STEVE!!
Is it really reasonable for you to assume...
That nothing good will happen in life unless you force it to?
Is that a truly rational and logical assumption?
I want... and therefore... it happens!!
Do you really believe you possess that much power?
How has this mindset been working for you?
My coaching will probably take you in a very different direction than you are headed right now.
I want you to understand that whatever is happening in your life... is happening.
However, it is not happening to YOU... it is simply happening.
And whatever is happening... is temporary. "This too shall pass."
I also want you to KNOW at your very core you are good enough.
I want you to KNOW you are perfect just the way you are.
I want you to KNOW you are an expression of infinite possibility.
I want you to KNOW you are One With Life... connected to everyone and everything, at all times.
This is your true essence.
Imagine waking up every day...
Happy, joyful, loving, and at peace...
Giving your highest and best to whatever life is presenting you with...
And having no expectations in return...
Being truly unattached to any outcome.
Life is very short.
Most of your life is used up.
What happens to you if you stop being a victim?
What happens to you if you stop blaming others?
What happens if you stop comparing yourself to others?
Perhaps the scariest thing we can do in life is take complete responsibility for how we experience life and how we respond to what is happening in our life.
The most important question you can answer right now is...
How do you want to live the rest of your life?
How you live is up to you.
What happens in your life... is not up to you.
The sooner you grasp this reality...
The sooner you can stop letting fear run your life...
And the sooner you can embrace your true power.
This is what coaching is all about.
Thanks,
Steve
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